it gets harder.

The more you let them in your life, the harder it will be for you to let them go.

Its crazy

It's crazy when you come to the realization to your problems is you. No one can make your problems greater than what you portray them to be. Not all problems are big, but if you upgrade them to a higher level of what it really is, then that's on you. Especially in relationships, problems are only obstacles. You can let them control the relationship and possibly ruin or corrupt it, or you can downplay them and as a team with your partner, YOU GUYS control the problem by fixing it. Another thing about "problems" are that people always tend to look at the negative side to them, but rarely anyone wants to look at the positive side of things. Not all problems are bad, they are what you make of it.

I've come to a realization that all my problems were upgraded to a point where it basically took over my life. I was depressed, stressed, and just angry with how the world treating me. But the world just has its lessons...and everyday is just a test of how you handle these situations. I've come to realize that not all people are bad, they just make mistakes. Mistakes don't define you, your way of handling them do.

Problems...they're only factors in your life, but its up to you to let it control you or you control it.

Don't control your woman. That's not love.

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fellahs

if your lady if getting mad at you, 99.9% of the time THERE IS A REASON. so save her and yourself time and pain and TALK to her about it. ask her what you did or what's wrong. its better to try to fix the problem than to deny there is any. SO FUCKIN MAN UP AND TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO BE THERE FOR HER.
if your lady is being stubborn as fuck, don't give up on her. if you love her enough, you'd stick around and help her outta her stubborn ways...or maybe, YOURE the reason she's stubborn so don't be surprised of the way she is. again, be a man and accept her.
if your lady isnt texting or calling you after a fight, she's waiting for your ass to call or text her. whenever the problem is her fault, she knows she has to call and make things up to you...but if she knows for a damn fact that you fucked up, CALL HER UP AND WORK THINGS OUT. take fuckin responsibility for your actions and stop saying you did nothing wrong...cus odds are you did. i doubt youd ever consider being with a psychotic bitch who gets mad for no reason. own up to your shit.

just a few things a guy has to know. more later.

in the words that basketball players will understand

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