fellahs

if your lady if getting mad at you, 99.9% of the time THERE IS A REASON. so save her and yourself time and pain and TALK to her about it. ask her what you did or what's wrong. its better to try to fix the problem than to deny there is any. SO FUCKIN MAN UP AND TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO BE THERE FOR HER.
if your lady is being stubborn as fuck, don't give up on her. if you love her enough, you'd stick around and help her outta her stubborn ways...or maybe, YOURE the reason she's stubborn so don't be surprised of the way she is. again, be a man and accept her.
if your lady isnt texting or calling you after a fight, she's waiting for your ass to call or text her. whenever the problem is her fault, she knows she has to call and make things up to you...but if she knows for a damn fact that you fucked up, CALL HER UP AND WORK THINGS OUT. take fuckin responsibility for your actions and stop saying you did nothing wrong...cus odds are you did. i doubt youd ever consider being with a psychotic bitch who gets mad for no reason. own up to your shit.

just a few things a guy has to know. more later.

in the words that basketball players will understand

The Man's Guide To Love #419 from themansguidetolove on Vimeo.

for real tho

people should stop writing love, inspirational quotes. they're just confusing the shit outta people, cus BOTH MEN AND WOMEN read that shit. "if a person wanted to talk to you, then they'll talk to you" is the most ridiculous shit someone could say. cus what if it refers to both sides huh? and now both the guy and the girl are waiting for one to talk to the other...but none of them budge, so they're both screwed! these quotes and sayings and bullshit things can corrupt a relationship. not all relationships are the same, so why the fuck do these "sayings" refer to all of them?!

on the real, we so were good. i had my expectations, yes, but they were highly reachable. within the first few months, you reached almost all of them! we seriously are too caught up in the bullshit, we're forgetting reality...the reality of how happy we made each other. forget all the shit you read or what youve heard. i dont believe everything i read or hear, i talk to you about it first. sure, i assume shit, but what person doesnt?! its a fuckin journey, not a fuckin trip. we're supposed to go through shit. no matter how hard things are, we promised each other we'd get through all of the hardships! you promised me...and i promised you...and we don't break promises. we seriously need to calm the fuck down, we're not fuckin married. we're just two kids, in love...well at least i am. we grow and we learn, and i've made the commitment that i wanted to do all that with you. and i'm sure as hell that you did too...back in the day. you loved me...you truly did...and i miss that, i miss you.

for real tho, fuck all yallllz for putting shit into people's heads of the "ideal relationship"...because the ideal relationship is what YOU AND HIM/ YOU AND HER want...not what others think it to be.

YOU ARE MY IDEAL RELATIONSHIP.
dont you ever fuckin forget it.

times like these

make me wanna have a boyfriend :/
no prom for me...wah! yallz have fun tho!

what do you do?

when the only person you truly love is in the process of leaving? whether its breaking up with you, moving, or both. what can you do to keep your head up high without showing anyone youre dying inside. what can you do to keep your mind occupied without thinking about the pain youre feeling? it sucks when the person that hurts you is the person you want to go to make you feel better. its like after you lost them, you lost everything...